Tag: Resilience

The Power of Showing Up for Others with Emilie Highley (Ep. 21)

The Power of Showing Up for Others with Emilie Highley (Ep. 21)

Many of us hope we’ll know what to do when someone we love needs us most. 

Yet caregiving, friendship, and supporting others through illness often arrive without a roadmap, asking us to respond with patience, compassion, and grace.

In this episode, Kevin Swanson sits down with Emilie Highley, Realtor at Compass, Los Gatos, to explore a life shaped by caring for others through some of their most difficult seasons. Emilie shares stories from her marriage, years spent supporting close friends through dementia and cancer, and caring for her husband during his long battle with heart disease and multiple sclerosis.

Emilie also reflects on resilience, kindness, trust, and why simply showing up for people can leave a lasting impact long after circumstances change.

Key takeaways:

  • Building lifelong relationships by putting people ahead of transactions and staying connected through every stage of life
  • Supporting friends through dementia with patience, compassion, and a willingness to meet them where they are
  • Serving as an advocate and trusted decision maker for those without nearby family or caregivers
  • Caring for a spouse through serious illness while finding strength, resilience, and perspective along the way
  • Choosing patience, understanding, and kindness as everyday practices that strengthen families and communities
  • And more!

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About our guest:

Emilie Highley is a Realtor at Compass, Los Gatos, and a community leader with more than two decades of experience helping families through major life transitions. Before entering real estate, she spent 33 years in the technology industry. Throughout her career, she has been known for building lasting relationships with clients, many of whom have become lifelong friends. Beyond her professional work, Emilie has dedicated herself to serving others as a caregiver, successor trustee, volunteer, and advocate for friends and loved ones facing illness, dementia, and aging. Her perspective is shaped by decades of compassion, resilience, and a deep commitment to helping people through some of life’s most meaningful and challenging moments.

Mission First, People Always: Leadership Lessons from Space and Life with Mark Pasquale (Ep. 14)

Mission First, People Always: Leadership Lessons from Space and Life with Mark Pasquale (Ep. 14)

Progress doesn’t always present itself as forward motion at first glance. Often, the biggest breakthroughs come from patience, preparation, and perspective.

What does it really take to build something meaningful over decades, and how do you stay grounded while doing it?

In this episode, Kevin Swanson interviews Mark Pasquale, former Vice President of Engineering at Lockheed Martin, about his 40-year career in aerospace and defense. He shares lessons from leading high-stakes missions, including the Artemis program and secure communication systems. Mark also reflects on his leadership philosophy, the importance of resilience and hard work, and how early financial habits like consistent saving can shape long-term outcomes.

Key takeaways:

  • Why circling the moon today is a critical step toward future Mars missions and long-term exploration goals
  • How persistence and initiative helped him stand out and land a role at Lockheed Martin early in his career
  • The leadership mindset of mission first, people always, and its impact on high-pressure decision making
  • How breaking complex challenges into smaller tasks helped manage stress and improve team performance
  • The long-term impact of starting small with retirement savings and allowing compounding to work over decades
  • And more!

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About our guest:

Mark A. Pasquale retired as the vice president and general manager of Lockheed Martin Space. In this senior role, he drives day-to-day execution at the enterprise level, motivating positive impact in cost and performance at the company and for its customer missions.

Previously, Mark served as the vice president and general manager of Special Programs, where he was responsible for critical national security missions in the space division’s largest line of business. He managed a broad portfolio of complex development programs, operations and maintenance contracts plus a variety of research and development pursuits. Before leading a line of business, Mark was the vice president of engineering and technology, where he led 10,000 engineers spanning all products, from ground systems, sensors and missile defense to human spaceflight and deep-space missions.  

Mark drove affordability and performance in many executive positions earlier in his career at Lockheed Martin. He led the Supply Chain organization, responsible for over $5 billion worth of subcontracts and procurement, and he grew in program management experience as deputy to the Military Space vice president, leader of the Transformational Satellite program and head of MUOS, a military communications program. He also served as the executive over commercial and government programs within the Commercial Space line of business.

Mark’s career began in 1984 on the Milstar satellite program. He entered his first management role with the Assembly, Integration and Test (AI&T) team, where he helped establish the Commercial Space AI&T management organization and supported the A2100 satellite bus transition to Sunnyvale, California.  

Mark earned his bachelor’s degree in Mechanical Engineering from San Jose State University in 1984 and serves on the San Jose State Engineering Department Industry Advisory Board. He is a recipient of the prestigious Lockheed Martin NOVA award, the San Jose State University Department of Engineering Distinguished Alumni Award, and is a member of the Silicon Valley Engineering Council Hall of Fame.